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Women who love sex

I got a revised edition of Gina Ogden's book "Women who love Sex", and remembered why I love this little tome. What a great thing it is to celebrate Women who want it. Without a slutty lable, well researched, fluid (a little clinical, not so raunchy), but great, great...

The girl's bisexual continuum

I was told a story recently from a married women, out with her husband at a bar she didn't usually frequent, who found herself dirty dancing with a lesbian tradeswoman to the delight of her husband and the rest of the bar. She said it was liberating to be that free...

The fetish guys sure know their pantihose

If someone had asked me before this summer what I thought the most common fetish was, I would be hard pressed to choose between cross-dressing, or feet. After seeing the number of patients this summer who were all fixated on the feel, texture, look of pantihose, I'm...

THE LURE OF LINGERIE

Spent some more money on lingerie yesterday.  I'm a bit depraved on the subject. I gave away chests of the damn stuff after my kids were born when my body completely changed sizes in every way, but have found recently I can't close my underwear drawer...

80 year old hot sex

I want to be old and still very sexy. I was presenting yesterday at the annual Stroke Survivors on Sex after Stroke about what you can do to keep it hot after you experience a stroke, and options for sexual functioning if you are differently abled. I also sang the...

Anonymouse

Hi there! Just a quick note to say that S and I really appreciate how good you are at your job, how engaging you are, and how much of a safe environment you make it. We look forward to when we don’t need your services LOL but in the meantime are looking forward to the process with you.

Anonymouse

N

I wanted to thank you so much for yesterday. I always appreciate your empathy and sage advice…. I always feel lighter–and my challenges seem less overwhelming–after chatting with you. Must admit, I was intrigued by the hypnosis idea, and definitely haven’t ruled that out. I need to find ways to be less easy for people to walk all over, but to be able to do it in ways that don’t rub people up the wrong way!

N

S

Thanks again for your time! It’s amazing how life actually has ‘life’ now…thank you! Who knew what a cup of tea could do..
Thanks again for the kind fun words. Thinking about you makes me smile. You’re a wonderful person. Keep smiling and making this world a better place.

S

Anne

Hi Sue, you likely won’t remember me- but I came to you a few years ago when I was living in Ottawa. I was having trouble with physical intimacy with my girlfriend at the time, and I had one session with you to try and determine whether the problem was psychological or physical. You believed at the time that it was likely psychological (I was in good physical shape all around, and there were a lot of unanswered questions about my future with my girlfriend, etc.)- and you turned out to be absolutely right!
Well, you should know that our session meant a lot to me- it/you helped me find clarity over the last couple years. You should also know that my girlfriend and I are still together, and doing better than ever. She moved to live with me here, we are getting a house together soon, and I may even ask her to marry me soon! I hope all is well with you, and It brings me joy to know that you are helping others every day. Thank you for the past, and hello to you in the present! You really helped me, and I’m grateful for it.
I just wanted to make sure that you received your book “Love in Abundance” in the mail. I didn’t have time to drop it off at your house before we left – it was my intention, but it was just too crazy.
Thanks again for everything you’ve done for me and J. In just a few short sessions, you helped us grow, learn more about ourselves, and about each other in very deep and intimate ways. We’ve journeyed to new places in our relationship thanks to you. (And you can quote me on that).
hugs,

Anne

B

Thank you again for being there for us as we transitioned into being Poly and eventually realizing that we could still be in each others lives but didn’t necessarily need to stay together. Our families are impressed w how maturely we have handled everything abs to be honest, our relationships with in-laws have been better than ever now that we are separated!
I miss your soul.

Dec 2020

 

“My life has pretty much done a full 180. I didn’t know how miserable I was until I experienced real life (shaking my head). A time machine would be great at times. But I made it!!! I think I promised you a picture of my firstborn, and I plan on following through on that.  You helped me so much.  Keep in touch and remember that if you ever need help with something, let me know. ”