The Ducklings

We are the Ducklings, a safe community of like-minded friends for whom kindness matters and who are sexy, sassy, flirty and fun. Our members are awesome people who enjoy getting together to safely flirt, have fun, and expand our knowledge of all things sexy. We do not allow aggression or drama, and no mean people need apply as being kind is a basic value in our group.

We’re not a dating group, nor are we a swinger’s group. We’re a community of people who are not afraid to dip a toe into something new because we’re not alone. It’s way more fun, and far safer, as a community. Our members are half couples (some married more than 30 years) and singles (gay, straight, or "its’ complicated"). We’re primarily over 25 but under 65, with most between 38 and 45. We are firmly in the middle between quiet and gentle, and crazy and wild. Most of all, we are kind.

Our activities range from PG to slightly out of your comfort zone. We have toured the private dungeon of the city’s best-known Dominatrix and visited a sex club after hours. We’ve taken salsa and polka lessons, learned how to throw an axe (dressed as Vikings to make it more fun), and held a pool party with volunteers providing pedicures and massages. And we love themed parties with costumes!

Given that our events are safe, the best way to discover if you’ll fit in is to come to a general event. You’ll meet lots of people, and as Ducklings are so friendly, they’re happy to answer questions from newbies.

Being a Duckling enhances relationships, increases intimacy and builds community.

We are NOT a sex club. Guys just looking to score need not apply here. (And we can’t believe we have to write this but inappropriate photos or randomly soliciting our female members will get you removed and blocked permanently!)

We’ve had some Ducklings that have found romance out of this group (and we are thrilled for them) but hooking up is not our primary goal. Love, and intimacy if it happens is delightful. But we’re not primarily a dating group. We are just sexy people (whatever that looks like for you in terms of age, size, race, or orientation) who want to have fun -together without any pressure.

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