It’s been amazing to watch the guys in the men’s group change. From awkward, bitter and confused about women to being coached by other guys to success. As Blaik says “the group is 25% education, 50% genuine sharing, and another 25% doubled-over in laughter”.
It’s hard to figure women out if you don’t have a bossy older sister like me or other guys to clearly (and in guy-speak) tell you what to do and where you went wrong. As the saying goes, “the masculine is defined by dialogue, challenge and feedback”.
I’m adding the new list coming out of the research on “what women find sexy about men”. If you are looking for coaching Blaik or I can help one-on one, or consider joining the Tuesday night men’s group.
“Huge dicks, in my experience, tend to be attached to huge dicks who have no idea what to do with them”
Leadership skills
Things women find hot….
Stubble- the masculine bad boy thing
Humour!!!!!
Show us you do altruistic things
Pictures with dog, guitars, and cool cars attract women online
Play hard to get. Neediness is the #1 turn off
In one speed-dating experiment, women were more attracted to men who were mindful — present, attentive, and nonjudgmental.
Wear red. It works for both men and women
Take small risks – start a fire, fly a glider, scuba dive etc.
Show that you have a Busy life
Be Passionate about something. Save the river, cuddle alpacas
Cool socks???? It came up on every study. Add it to your Xmas list
Smells nice. Find a cologne that speaks to you and wear a small amount every day
Own your flaws. Know that you suck at volleyball. Or whatever
All women are looking for adventure. Small road trips, activities that are somehow adventurous.
Roll up your sleeves to your forearms.
Have male friends and be a good friend to your buddies
I strongly encourage you to consider the men’s group and scotch tasting. Either virtually or in person. It’s real, funny, relevant, warm and connected. And Blaik hits it out of the park. Find out more and join in. Less than $25 a week of outstanding therapy, information and connection.